Fundamental Attribution Error
If you choose to understand one cognitive bias - let it be the fundamental attribution error.
So, what is Fundamental Attribution Error (FAE)?
It is our way to attribute people's behaviour to their character and justify one's own behaviour with the situation and context.
We are often quick to judge others without taking the situational factors into consideration, as it offers the path of least resistance. We judge others differently from how we judge ourselves. We are hardwired to make FAEs because it strengthens our confidence. Don’t mistake this confidence for competence.
Also, FAEs may not be universal across cultures. While western cultures place increasing reliance upon disposition as an explanation of events observed, eastern cultures based their explanations more on situations. You may have or will experience FAE differently based on the society you grew up in.
The FAE is so prevalent because it's rooted in psychology, so completely overcoming it can be difficult. To tackle it we should learn to be more empathetic. In the age of remote work, this is becoming even more important. With more conversations moving online, judgements are getting quicker, which leads to a compounding effect of FAE.
Be kind. And balance your perspective.